There is one Ukrainian proverb that can be translated as: “Who is the driver, the same is the passenger”. The point is that everyone wants to find a soulmate, but actually finds Beings. And in order to reach the soul, you need awareness, time and efforts before you will see the real it. And I wasn’t an exception as well.
While two partners don’t feel self-sufficient, the contact occurs on the level of body and personality (first three centers). I’m talking here about an average couple. Communication on the level of the soul begins from the heart center. But as there is no integrity within a couple yet, everything begins with an attachment, which means that one partner completes himself by using another one.
I’d like to begin with a story that will help me illustrate to you what I’ll be talking about.
An experienced yogi falls in love with an eighteen year old girl.
For a yogi of such a high- level this feeling would be more like a headache than a joy because similarities to monks the yogi will also maintain a life of celibacy.